10 Signs He's Cheating on You

He won’t share his password, doesn’t understand why you want to see his phone, and always has it on him. This is what we call a red flag.

Does he seem to be lovey dovey one minute, and then irrationally upset the next? If he’s feeling guilty for cheating there’s a good chance he’ll try to make up for it by showering you with a affection only to become frustrated with himself and take it out on you later.

Your man is a bit preoccupied with his appearance. He primps more than he used to, seems to have new clothes all the time, and might be going to the gym more than usual. If this is true, but he doesn’t seem to care that you notice how nice he looks then you’ve likely got an unfaithful man.

Does your guy want you to go spend more time with your family and friends without him accompanying you? It’s one thing for your boyfriend to want you to maintain healthy relationships outside of him, but it’s an entirely different situation if he seems to want you out of the way.

If you’re married and notice transactions on your shared account that your husband can’t explain or blames on you, then he’s likely cheating. Also, if your man suddenly begins cutting back on dates and fun nights out because he can’t afford it (but there’s no reason for him to have money issues) then the money is the least of your worries.

If your man becomes suspicious of you and begins accusing you of seeing another man then he’s most likely trying to throw you off his trail and make you feel guilty. Unless you really are cheating on him.

If your boyfriend starts spending oodles of time with a new friend, and never asks you to meet said friend, then there’s a really good chance he’s having an affair.

When you ask your man about his day, does he give you way more detail than you expect from him or just brush off your question without really answering? Men that cheat tend to be vague about what they’ve been doing throughout the day, or they try to reassure you with a plethora of small details about unimportant things.

When you ask your man about his day, does he give you way more detail than you expect from him or just brush off your question without really answering? Men that cheat tend to be vague about what they’ve been doing throughout the day, or they try to reassure you with a plethora of small details about unimportant things.

Cheaters are typically good liars and manipulators. If you’ve been suspecting that your man is unfaithful, but then find yourself feeling like a bad girlfriend or wife after trying to talk to him, then he’s likely being unfaithful and working hard to make you feel like the bad guy.